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BREAKING A FRIENDSHIP/ RELATIONSHIP OR TRYING TO MAKE IT WORK OUT ? WHICH WOULD YOU DO

Firstly the issue of friendship/relationship isn't one that needs to be handled without a matured mind, which includes the way we think, act, etc. Well quite a number of us would prefer to break a relationship rather than trying to amend it, the only time breaking a relationship is an option is only when none of the party's are ready to let go their pride n accept that they both made mistake or that they are sorry. Alot of people find it so hard to even admit they are at fault letting their ego overshadow the relationship which is not meant to be so, a lot of relationships has been broken because of this and others because of lies they tell in the relationship. Truth be told breaking a relationship doesn't pay at times cause we really don't know if the role of the person has been concluded in our life and we still do not know where we would met in future weather you might need their help or vice versa, so instead of breaking a relationship totally you could either mak...

Open Opportunities

A lot of youths are out there talking about no employment from the government and even the private owned companies are either not in need or workers or Payless. Why settle for less,why wait for the government or wait for connection when you can connect yourself and make your own money,there are a lot of people out there who started with just a penny and now earn millions and billions of money, you could start up a business be it Online or not. The issue is that nowadays we hardly see youths or even teenagers who are ready to go through some manual labour to make money or to earn a living, everyone wants a fast way of making money forgetting that the richest man in the world now started from somewhere before attaining all he has now and trust me when i say i wasn't easy for him while climbing the ladder of success, you might met up with an obstacle,you might fall,you might get discouraged but one the thing is sure once you are determined,then you are surely going to make i...

Keeping Godly Relationship

Dangers of ungodly relationship. A lot of us don't look at the danger of keeping an unhealthy or ungodly relationship which makes us believe what we are doing is right, the following are the dangers: ● Unwanted pregnancy: Apart from rape being the cause of unwanted pregnancy, we can also say that a relationship that is built basically on sex could lead to pregnancy which stagnates the life of the girl. ● It leads to addiction: As we all know everything we do has a spirit behind it and so therefore we should be careful on the things we get involved in. For example, if we get involved in sexual immorality at our young age it gets to a point where we become addicted to it and see it as something we can't live without, so avoid this we have to abstain from it. ● Making an unknown covenant and carrying a load heavier than yours: This is a serious one, this has to do with the having of sex. It is dangerous because the act sex is an act of covenant which can't be broken t...

What is the term Relationship all about and how Teenagers /Young Adult view it.

Relationship according to the Oxford dictionary says it's the condition of being related by blood or marriage, though this definition might seem so deep, on the other hand its self explanatory. Relationship is meant to be a thing that lead to marriage, it's meant for matured minds, but unfortunately we see teens going into relationship for the fun of it or influence or pressure from friends.    Teens and Youth see this as an opportunity to exploit all the girls and do things they have always wanted to do but couldn't, which destroys their life unknowingly. Who says you can't wait for the right ime to come before doing any of those,the truth is as teens/youth we would like to explore, but in the process of exploring we damage our lives go beyound what we ought to do and ought not to do forgetting that we have a long journey ahead of us.    We mostly see relationship as a medium to "know if we are romantic or not" according to some of us. But no thats where ...