Keeping Godly Relationship

Dangers of ungodly relationship.

A lot of us don't look at the danger of keeping an unhealthy or ungodly relationship which makes us believe what we are doing is right, the following are the dangers:
● Unwanted pregnancy: Apart from rape being the cause of unwanted pregnancy, we can also say that a relationship that is built basically on sex could lead to pregnancy which stagnates the life of the girl.
● It leads to addiction: As we all know everything we do has a spirit behind it and so therefore we should be careful on the things we get involved in. For example, if we get involved in sexual immorality at our young age it gets to a point where we become addicted to it and see it as something we can't live without, so avoid this we have to abstain from it.
● Making an unknown covenant and carrying a load heavier than yours: This is a serious one, this has to do with the having of sex. It is dangerous because the act sex is an act of covenant which can't be broken that is why is meant for married couples and not the young ones, but now aday it is meant for anyone which is wrong because no one knows what he/she is carrying in the body and then the person keeps on passing it to anyone he/she sleeps with. Lets take this scenerio: a bike removes a part of a train and adds it to itself, the bike hasn't damaged the train neither has it made it to stop moving fast,the thing is that the train would still move faster and the bike would move even slower than before. This applies to us we do not know what the other person has and the moment you have sex with the person you start sharing part of the persons problem and vise versa and it goes on and on like that.
● Its a sin against God: Most of us believe we are too young and that whatever we do cant be counted as sin to God, but no the moment we start talking and growing older whatever we do against his will is noted as sin and it hinders a lot of things, and as a christian and a child of God we should be founding doing things that displeases him. Though it might not be written in the bible that its a sin but we should know that what is not pleasing or against his will is a sin, so to avoid sinning we need to keep a Godly relationship.

Results of a Godly relationship.

As there are dangers of ungodly relationship, there are the good aspect of keeping a Godly relationship and not a compromising Godly relationship.
● It keeps the devil away from our relationship: This is so because once the relationship is built on Godly things and for good benefits also if the two parties are always not found in secret places, with the fear of God in them nothing ungodly would come into the relationship.
● It yields good fruit: This is the best part of keeping a Godly relationship because, they will both benefit from each other in a good way (intellectual benefit, spiritual benefit, academic benefit etc.)and such relationships are likely to last longer than the one based on other things.