Firstly the issue of friendship/relationship isn't one that needs to be handled without a matured mind, which includes the way we think, act, etc. Well quite a number of us would prefer to break a relationship rather than trying to amend it, the only time breaking a relationship is an option is only when none of the party's are ready to let go their pride n accept that they both made mistake or that they are sorry.
Alot of people find it so hard to even admit they are at fault letting their ego overshadow the relationship which is not meant to be so, a lot of relationships has been broken because of this and others because of lies they tell in the relationship.
Truth be told breaking a relationship doesn't pay at times cause we really don't know if the role of the person has been concluded in our life and we still do not know where we would met in future weather you might need their help or vice versa, so instead of breaking a relationship totally you could either make it work out again or keep it on a distance level i.e talk when u talk, just make sure it doesn't die completely, but if it does it's best u let everything go, some will also say a broken relationship is better than a broken heart or marriage which ever way you put it.
One thing we need to know is that breaking of relationship and making it work out are intertwined cause there comes a time in life where breaking a relationship is the best and some other times when making it work out is the best, they both have their Advantages and disadvantages.
Reasons why breaking a relationship is not advisable
Although I have stated some above, the other reasons are ;
1.) As a result you would or might go through some heart break which sometimes are not easy to take it off your mind, which sometimes leads to emotional trauma or depression etc.
2.) We are unaware of God's plan for us, so why break a relationship when it isnt God's plan. That is why we need God in our lives and also need to be closer to him so that his plan and purpose concerning us would be revealed to us that is if he wants to, but if it isn't then ask him to direct your steps.
3.) Breaking a relationship because of a minor issue isn't really the best, ask yourself what if I find myself in another relationship and the person brings up the same character or attitude is that the same way you would break the relationship? Such person would be tagged as a someone who has had so many broken relationships.
Reasons why making a relationship work out is the best.
1.) As said in the second paragraph,trying to make the relationship helps cause it shows how much you care and need the relationship no matter what has gone wrong, then it depends on the other party if he/she still wants the relationship, if the person insists on breaking the relationship the fact that you tried your best keeping the relationship matters a lot.
2.) Making it work is the best cause if it eventually works out there is a probability that it would be the best you can ever imagine depending on the people in the relationship some may just feel like “Am I really doing this again” and sometimes it might not be the way it used to be.
3.) Making a relationship work won't mar you but make you, because you would see yourself as a better person for trying your best.
Reasons why people see breaking relationships as a better action to take.
1.) Some are probably just tired of trying to make things work out, while some don't try at all but give up on the relationship.
2.) When even after making the relationship work, the person doesn't change his or her attitude.
3.) When a particular relationship isn't worth it, cause truly some relationships are not worth it.
Reasons why others prefer making relationships work.
1.) Some feel the need to do so cause they don't know tomorrow.
2.) Some others is what they benefit from the relationship that still keeps them going and trying their best to make it work
In all keeping relationships are the best only if u don't see changes in them or you see no reason to stay in the relationship anymore, but before you end a relationship think well and always talk to the other party about his or her behaviour. Let communication be the first thing in your relationship.
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