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THE FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN.

 Hey lovelies,

Happy weekend.

So, to today’s discussion, I’m sure you’re wondering what exactly it's going to about well think less, stay tuned and read on😉.





The fear of the unknown is usually something that gets in the way of a lot of us getting things done, trying new things, going outside of our comfort zone and everything new or different.


It’s not easy to do things without being scared of what could happen, the what if’s and all the clauses, one sure thing is that this all brings about anxiety. I usually say something, everything in this life is a risk, sleeping is a risk but it doesn't make us not to sleep, driving is a risk but it doesn’t make us not to drive, working is a risk but it doesn’t make us stop working, business is a risk but it doesn’t stop us from investing and going into other lines of business and having several streams of businesses and the list goes on and on of risks in life that we still engage in. A lot of the people some of us look up to or hear about today knew the risk they would encounter in the business they are in today but they saw the positivity or the profit in it and went for it, why can’t you?

Please let’s note that there’s nothing like they were made for it talk, I mean no one wants to have to lose their sleep because of business or decisions they made but some just risk all that because they see it’s worth it.




So, why still let the fear of the unknown in. I’m guilty of this, still working on myself though ( it’s a process). I’m writing this to anyone reading this and is scared of going into that business, relationship, self-development plan, new job, outside the comfort zone, just find the good side and go ahead with it after all God says “the thought I have towards you is of good and not of evil to have an expected end”. So why fear? Take the fears, worries, negative thoughts away and take them to God so that he can give you good thoughts.


Learn to view things from a better perspective, see the good in things and not bad. Yes, there are times we go for things and end up almost losing ourselves to it, that was a risk we took in order not to retake it we learn our lesson and find our grounds again.


Note: Not everyone would prefer to learn mistakes on their own and it’s okay even if sometimes all you need is to learn from people’s mistakes at least it’s easier and doesn’t cost anything, yeah?


On the second hand, doing away with the fear of the unknown shouldn’t make you take irrational decisions or make a decision in a hurry, take your time, know if you want it and can do it if it’s a business that entails risk read on it, ask questions, seek advice, pray about it and go about it.


So today, let go of the fear of the unknown and give everything to God and learn to see the good in things.

A little assignment for us to do, pen down your fears one side and then pen down the positive of the fears by the side and see the beauty hidden in those fear, see it from Gods perspective and just begin what you ought to have started.



Thanks for reading this piece, I hope you learnt a thing or two.

Let me know what you think about it in the comment section.

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Till next time.

Bye lovelies

#Thegabbytable#

Comments

  1. Hmm... I fear to take risk because of fear of the unknown which is bad.. but i believe even if we get a negative result, it's actually for a better you.. learn from that mistake and continue the process...

    Thanks for the encouragement

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  2. Life it's self is risky, avoiding risk is like saying you're avoiding life you finally would have to meet the death you've always feared.
    Thank you for reading❤️.

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