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SOME FEW QUESTIONS PEOPLE ASK THEMSELVES.

   What happens when you suddenly loose interest in someone? what happens when someone who used to make you laugh now makes you cry? what happens when i suddenly start loosing interest in my relationship? what happens when the person who is always there for me is now far away from me? what happens when i don't make God first? What happens when am not a man or woman of principles? Why do we need to love ? why do most relationships not work well? why do i feel like am far away from God and not worthy of his love?
     This are questions that a lot of people ask themselves when they start having those feelings, now the truth is at a point we all tend to start loosing interest in people maybe because you are actually tired of the same old things they do and you would probably like to try out new things but the person wouldn't want to.
     What happens when someone who used to make you laugh now makes you cry?
If you are going through this it's two ways, the person might really not mean to hurt you and it can also be that the person probably doesn't know you are hurt by what he or she is doing to you, some would want to hurt you cause they probably want you to forget them or probably do not want to have anything to do with you.
      What happens when i suddenly start loosing interest in my relationship?
This question is a deep one, in a relationship when a Lady or a Guy starts loosing interest in each other its either one isn't faithful to the other, or probably those things your partner does that makes you feel he or she is the best they don't do it anymore, maybe what attracted you to your partner is just no longer attractive to you, maybe you feel the love is just too much though it is very much okay to get tired of a relationship but mind you when you are at that point, ask yourself why you seem to be tired and if it's something that needs to be discussed it should be done on time.
     What happens when the person who is always there for me is now far away?
Firstly, such a person should search him or herself well in order to find out where they went wrong, if none then the person just wanted to be far away or something somehow took the person away from you.
       What happens when i don't make God first?
As children of God one of the most important thing we need to do is to put God first in anything we do, we need to put him first cause his word says " Seek ye first the kingdom of God and every other thing shall be added onto you" so it is until you seek his kingdom by putting him first in all we do and making him lead while we follow, only then can other things we seek for be added unto us. Some might say does it mean that if i don't put God first that i won't make it in life, well you would surely make it cause God's thought for us is of good and not of evil to give us an unexpected end, but we only get more of his blessings if we put him first.
       What happens when am not a man or woman of principles?
Hmmmmm...Lack of principles have really led some people into doing what they really didn't bargain for, to avoid that we all need to be a lady or guy of principles in helps in knowing how to rule your world and makes you to be respected and seen as a principled person who's life is aligned.
        Why do we need love?
Hmmm.... A lot of single people ask themselves this question probably because they haven't found a reason to love yet or maybe because they don't understand why there must be love. The first person to show love in this world in God because he gave us his only begotten son as an evidence of his love for us then his son Jesus died on the cross as an evidence of his love to for us, so with all this why should we stay away from love. We all know the agape love which is the love of Christ without condition, then the love we all know now that brings two opposite sex together. We need love because without love we can't keep a close relationship, some might say but with understanding no need for love, my question is what brings this understanding? it is this same love we all are talking about if i don't love you i wouldn't want to understand you even you are right, love is the key to hidden doors.
        Why do most relationships not work out well?
A lot of relationships are crashing today cause of lack of communication,Love,trust, faithfulness and many more( for more explanation check my last post).
         Why do i feel am far away from God and not worthy of his love?
The main reason is because of sin, we probably feel filthy before God and that's why at times to even pray to him or study his word seems hard for us cause we feel we aren't worthy of anything he does or gives to us,it's only our sins that can separate us from God that's why at all times we need to ask God for forgiveness.
     
   

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