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COMMUNICATION IN RELATIONSHIP.

    When it comes to maintaining a good and healthy relationship a lot of people have big difficulties in maintaining a good relationship and also how to be open minded.
Firstly, people often wonder what went wrong in their relationship when problem arises, the important key in a relationship is communication and understanding, this two things helps in maintaining a relationship and makes it last longer than expected. Some might disagree with this and say what about love, trust etc. The truth is all that are important, but what do you think a relationship is without understanding and communication?
       To get a relationship going one must learn to communicate to his or her partner or friend and this depends on how open minded and free the person is, you obviously do not expect a secretive person to be very good at communicating especially when it comes to deep conversations about what goes on in the person's life and kinda personal issues the person surely would avoid such talks because he or she knows that they are not willing to open up to anything at all.
       Communication is something that a relationship shouldn’t lack, If your partner is someone who isn’t outspoken you should try and make the person understand the reason and importance to speak up.
In order for a relationship to work out he two parties should learn to communicate, talk about what you like and don’t like, talk about your several point of views, tell eachother what they did that was good and what the other party did that was wrong, talk about how you feel why you feel thise things etc.
When it comes to a daughter to mother relationship, this should be very deep, although, nowadays a lot of young girls prefer telling things to their friends than to their mother. At times the mother is to be blamed cause some mother's really don't have time for their children all they do is to make sure she takes care of them when necessary and then her work comes next, then the children are left in the carwe of the house help or a nanny.
The relationship that should be between a mother and her daughter should be a really close one and one that isn't built on fear but on love and the fact that the mother would be able to stay by her through out her steps in life, a mother should be an advicer to her daughter, should be the strength of her daughter. Most times some mother's really are the reasons why they do not have a very good mother to child or daughter relationship, a lot of mother's really do not have the patience to listen to what the child has to say and then they jump into conclusion just like that, others is because of the manner and way they approach the issue, a child whose mother is the scolding type who always shoouts at everything,anything and nothing.
It is very important to communicate to people, let your mind,opinion or whatever you have in mind be known to people if neccesary cause there are somethings that people really do not need to known but your partner, parents and very close friend whom you trust so much could know about it.

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